24 years in Australia and what this has taught me.
1. There can be empowerment in all this relative silence and remoteness. The genesis for an idea can arise when there is no artificial distraction. When some parts of the world buckle under congestion and pollution, never under estimate the uniqueness and advantage of relatively untainted spaces and capabilities. Always look for the differentiators and delights that the rest of the world hunger for.
2. What has not been used or encountered at all in one whole year does say some thing. It means either you never needed them, or that you have not been active enough to appreciate and utilise them.
3. What I have been paying for all this time? Expensive prices when compared to nations with larger populations? Late arrival of the latest product designs or the trendy movies or shows? Are big businesses milking us extra as Australian consumers just because they can? Is it because we have pricey costs to dish out in running a business here? The high Australian dollar in recent years, greater overseas travel and more confidence in on line purchases has made most Australians break free of such constraints.
4. The more things change, the more they remain the same. I look around and at times continue to experience deja vu, the fact that I have seen it all before. To commence meaningful changes, we look at ourselves in the mirror and take it from there to act and not just reflect. There is cause and reason on most occasions. There are individuals who take advantage for themselves, yet there are others who seize upon the advantage to help others. The eternal things that remain the same are inflation and gradual physical breakdown - prepare for these. So is sunrise at the beach, a child's laughter and a family feel.
5. Practice and routine does make it easier. Add another layer - timeliness in making decisions and doing things bring us to another dimension. At every age, give yourself time to face and make the hard decisions.
6. The more you give, the more you receive. The less you expect, the more happy you can be. Raise a puppy and spend time with people older and younger than your generation. Encourage and be encouraged in return, You liberate yourself from one of the chains of the human condition. Sharing the joy is more important than to be trapped in delusional self-importance, evidence of which can be seen in some people who do not realise this condition themselves as they continue to chase the smoke and mirrors of self-gratification.
7. Stepping out and embracing change is marvellous. Allow yourself occasionally to be surprised. That is what life is all about. Think of Nature and the seasons. Think of ourselves as shedding skin and allowing a better inside to breathe. Each of us is capable of being positively more than we ever know.
8. At times, I am not sure what to be convinced of anymore - especially from an overload of all types of media, trends and information. Be strong and have your own personal values. Remember to smile no matter what.
9. This has been a fortunate country. However, I lament the loss of the sense of giving to be replaced by what society calls the sense of entitlement.
10. Travel nurtures the mind and heart. Its worth may dribble and dilute through the years, but there is always an inner core of satisfaction and inspiration that it holds in our hearts.
11. Everyone of us does get into a rut - the trick is to recognise it first and then do something about it.
Rut comes in many forms, can be caused by no logical reason or person but in the end, only you can move on from rut to growth. When you rise above the water, make a point to celebrate.
12. If the first stop does not measure up, try another place. You owe no loyalty to people who do not commit to you. Such negativity are not worth considering anyway. In the end, they fade into our timeline like some fuzzy train on a foggy night.
13. Pay attention to detail.
14. Review, revise and reflect, but take action accordingly.
15. Sometimes, just make a stand. You may have to do so in an unexpected moment or in reaction to a long brewing scenario. Take care of yourself first before you can then effectively help others.
16. It is important as to how and when we pick ourselves up when some people throw stones at us.
17. Do something for others, no matter how small, when they least expect it - and do not expect anything yourself.
18. Grow as many flowering beds as you can. Plant as many seeds as you can, even if you know some will not germinate. Some day later, especially when you have forgotten about them, you delight in the fruits of such effort.
19. Recognise part of yourself in an apparent stranger. Put yourself in the shoes of the trodden, the bored and the oppressed. They do and shall rise one day in stature, motivation and influence, if only to start a family, but also if they contribute to your community and your values.
20. Enjoy the moment. Nothing else matters, as it soon becomes the past and the future is just a concept.
21. Savour the outdoors and its freedom.
22. Take comfort in your own personal anchor, as life is navigating yourself - and those you love - through a journey.
23. Make a difference - and be a difference that is refreshingly welcome.
24. Real friendship never goes away.
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Wednesday, 15 May 2013
Friday, 10 May 2013
Char Koay Teow
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Wednesday, 8 May 2013
At All & Sundry, Woonona - Wollongong Coast NSW
| The main counter. |
Shane alerted me on SMS about this newly opened cafe one Saturday morning (the first one of May) when Scott and I were at Diggies, North Gong Beach for an early brunch. On my way up to the north-western suburbs of Sydney , I reckoned I should give it a try in the early afternoon. Initially I could not find the place, but the Woonona newsagent opposite Macker's had a friendly chap at the counter who knew about this cafe.
So as the clouds gathered above the Illawarra, and when the winds whipped up, I hurriedly went down slope along the Princes Highway and spotted a lane beside a butcher's, as advised. And there it was. All & Sundry. My first impressions were that it was so Melbourne and yet so Sutherland Shire. Next opportunity it may be better to park the car in a parking area just outside the cafe but away from the main road.
At late lunch hour on a Saturday, there were several people seated at tables or waiting for their takeaways. The pace felt casual, people seemed to have time as it was the start of a weekend and there seemed to be limited seating both inside and outside. It was a hotch-potch of various ages, ranging from the twenty somethings to older couples. The place looked relatively bright inside with framed pictures on one wall, adjacent to an anime looking female character dominating the view as one stepped in.
I just wanted a quick cuppa. Apart from the ubiquitous espresso, I noticed that filter, pour over and aero press variations are also available. All & Sundry is not open at this stage on Sundays and Mondays, but available from business on other days other days from 8am. No dinner menus at this stage. I chose to sit down and had a cup and saucer version of a standard milky order.
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| A limited indoor seating area. |
Espresso options include the Guatemala "la perla" (with maple syrup, hazelnuts, butter washed bourbon and orange mixes); the El Salvador "el Borbollon" (soft acidity washed Bourbon, sweet caramel and honey blend); and the Human Cannonball (the staple used by All & Sundry for milk coffees served there and a Brazilian sourced roast from Golden Cobra). The barista attending to me dressed in a casual trendiness and brought me the coffee in the photo below. It was not a busy time and he had a smiling disposition.
| Interesting use of retro saucers and cups. |
Food choices on the current menu are eclectic and you can have healthy wholegrain porridge (graced with poached nectarine and rhubarb) for breakfast, in contrast to a braised lamb shoulder ( accompanied by rocket, goat's fetta cheese and romesco) for lunch time. Quick snacks include the Otway ham baguette (with Maffra cheddar and Stewie's own tomato relish) and a in-house granola with poached pear, prune and vanilla.
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| Kid friendly |
There is wide variety of tea choices. I find captivating the "Heal" mixture based on Calendula flower petals, fennel seeds, lemongrass, ginger and mint. Several varieties are familiar to those with Asian backgrounds - the White Peony from southern China; Good Morning, a composite of blends from Yunnan, Assam and Sri Lanka; Masala Chai; and the Cloud and Mist, a savoury green tea from Jiangxi Province in China. I found my coffee of an unusual flavour but need to return to provide a view.
| A customer leaves by bicycle - the view outside the cafe. |
Tuesday, 7 May 2013
Ipoh on York - Sydney CBD
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| The ice grinder |
Il Buon Gusto, Picton Mall - Greater Sydney
Opened only a few months ago, Gusto is located on the right hand side as one enters the Picton Mall in south-western portion of the greater Sydney area. The mall itself is compact, with several retailers,the inevitable supermarket (Coles), a rather fancy butcher (which stands out with its produce and variety of offerings, especially various types of beef and pork sausages) and a coffee place. Occasionally, someone rents out a spot in the spacious lobby and offers products like accessories and handicrafts.
Down towards the main road and vehicle parking spaces is a rather delightful IGA, particularly for those who shun the bigger grocery players.
Picton is more of a place you live in rather than anything else. Visitors may pass by on their way somewhere, or regulars may stream in from their bush hideaways and lifestyle abodes. Residents in this corner of so-called Sydney may be more attracted to MacArthur Square and the urban hub of Campbelltown rather than congregate here. To get to Picton however is rather accessible, 40 minutes from the Wollongong Coast, an hour from Mittagong perhaps and okay to pop over from Liverpool further north. It is also reachable by train if you have the time and you are duly rewarded by an interesting retro dining place inside a sandstone building once you go past the rail turnstiles.
So I was curious about Gusto. With only a lunchtime opportunity, I had sampled their fettucine gambari on a previous occasion, bought takeaway latte from them and hence wanted to try more. The owner said they make their own cannanoli and chocolate cheesecake - but I was eyeing the macarons, cake slices, friands and other sweet stuff in the covered shelf cabinet. The kitchen was hidden to one side of the venue and there are seats for four on raised platforms, apart from the usual free standing tables inside and outside.
For a quick session, I decided this time on a breakfast item, the egg Provencal. Pictured above, I had a choice of ham or proscuitto, with a sprig of greens with eggs over a sourdough. It was a nippy Tuesday but I was glad there were more people lunching than during my last visit. The foodie scene is perhaps more tucked away on the side of Picton away from this mall. Staff are easy going at Gusto and there seems to be an easy pace about it.
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