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Wednesday, 11 March 2026
Living and Investing in Havens
When trouble strikes elsewhere, a city state like Singapore watches. Others also watch Singapore.
Singapore gains from being and/ or perceived to be a beacon of relative governance/ financial/ educational/ personal/ health/ economic/ trade safety, compared to her competition.
Now her leadership has also to seriously grapple between her Asian cultural roots and Western colonial links, in a geopolitical landscape that seems to heighten tensions and more interaction between the East and West.
Singapore's strategic characteristics, her geographical size and her image can be double edged blessings and risks. She attracts attention, she attracts investment, she attracts portable funds always waiting for a place to park (until the next higher return).
Singapore can also arouse players which may have designs on her to embed their vested interests. It can be due to her strategic location at the nexus of significant shipping, airline and trading routes. It can be due to her mature, dynamic and relatively more reliable reputation as a financial centre. It can be her government's consistent readiness and planning to overcome most present and future risks.
Singapore also is sited centrally in the Indo-Pacific region, the world's fastest growing region. She is ever conscious and alert to rising competitors, whether in the most prominent Bay areas of the USA and China, or in the petroleum rich and ambitious city states of West Asia.
Behemoth financial centres like London, Tokyo, Shanghai and Hong Kong have always loomed large historically when Singapore was not so developed. Those four cities incurred extensive damage and loss in the huge wars of the 20th century, but so did Singapore.
Lower tax regimes in Singapore, compared to OECD nations, can make her investment attraction and advantage more like tax havens. In fact, Singapore does better in structuring her society than most atypical small city or island tax havens. Key features that top most lure expats to Singapore can be a one stop corporate shop, organised infrastructure, high standard education/ medical facilities and relative personal safety.
Any expat living or investing in tax havens can move away from their original home nations - and they do so for lower costs of living, taking advantage of currency exchange rates, enjoying a different lifestyle, jet setting and having a better climate.
Such havens structure their society to attract such expats. Dubai has under stated its war risks in a volatile geopolitical region. Singapore is serious in better managing its humid weather conditions. Tax havens in Europe are used to navigate through the historical confrontations and conflicts - and they can be little kingdoms, unassumedly not catching the attention of most critics or opposition. The Carribean isles invite investors to soak in warm weather vacations as well .
Dubai has extreme high temperatures but that is mitigated by energy consuming air conditioning ( like in Singapore and Hong Kong). Expats, whether they are media influencers, cashed up retirees or corporate high flyers, often need a variety of offerings in leisure night life activities, contemporary arts, unique architectural surroundings and more.
Some tax havens do also stand out in offering vibrant business opportunities, critical networking and excellent internet reliability.
The dark side of such vibrant places is the unavoidable requirement to import lower paid migrants willing to undertake the so called menial jobs, which are critical to the running of society but often hidden away from media attention or acknowledgememt by authorities.
Hong Kong may not be seen as organised as Singapore, but has benefitted much as a financial centre and trade conduit to the burgeoning hinterland of Greater China. Now more well integrated with an ever prosperous and technologically advanced Motherland, Hong Kong now also competes with dynamic cities within China itself.
The Swiss adopted a vital stand of neutrality to differentiate themselves from the often shaky geopolitics in Europe. By so doing, Switzerland instantly offered better stability and reliability to investors and those seeking minimisation of risks. On top of the Swiss cake, the country offered governance through a republic. These are the layers intentionally built under the star feature - financial discretion and management ability.
No place is perfect - and what is more significant is how a society and government highlight their strong points and manage risks for their vulnerable ones.
#yongkevthoughts
Sunday, 8 March 2026
What Really Rules
Underlying the veneer of international affairs, long ago there already is no such thing as rules based order, for the standards of such rules are determined by those who can.
Ponder more if you agree the following factors are more relevant, persistent and practised in the conduct of world affairs, politics and human matters.
Alliances and Peer Pressure.
There is more pressure on governments of various kinds to show support for the articulated actions and thoughts of allies, then dabbling in self intelligence and independent approaches - especially when one ally carries more weight than the others. Some nations may have to reflect if their alliance partner status may be lost once they are no longer useful to the chief ally. Reflect on how the two world wars of the 20th century developed.
Cultural Sentiment and the Diaspora Effect.
When some nations and societies are formed through shared history, the cultural vibes can over rule other considerations.
Generations of humans, even if residing in disparate territories, have been inculcated into the same language, philosophies and ideals from an early age. That over bearing sense of belonging gives a uniqueness which has to be protected and strengthened through the ages, come what may. This can be related to the social mesh of tribal dynamics.
Trade Dependency.
It can be common sense to know where the food comes from, who brings home the bacon (so to speak) and to not jeopardise your main market who pays the cash. Yet there have been episodes around the world where economies have thrashed those who buy most from them.
Apart from food sources, world trade thrives on energy needs, vital minerals, manufacturing components for weapons, health products and telecommunications plus niche items.
Economic Prowess and Market Power.
If you can pull and leverage on what makes the world tick and grow, there can be a ruthlessness in the exercise of such dominating abilities. Some do so just because they can and all polite talk is thrown out the window. More competition can erode such wrecklessness, but lack of competition is a form of so called free market forces that are ruinous.
Independent Abilities.
When your society has optimal leadership to manage an economy despite the lack of physical resources, it is a telling sign of how potential can truly become reality. It is also useful as an example of how to rise above challenges, risks and weaknesses. The ability to transform and compete can be nurtured, encouraged and maintained.
Underlying rhe success of such growth nations is their ability to recognise and exercise their strategic advantage/ differential play, despite accompanying weaknesses.
Historical Animosities.
Conflicts that rage on in the hearts of various succeeding generations can lead to more destruction and overtones of emotional anguish. Beliefs can be portrayed in black and white, with no compromise for meeting opinions half way.
The persistent human tendencies for scoring an eye for an eye churns negativities into more complicated forms. Human beings like these are obsessed with an attachment to beliefs that can be manipulated by certain individuals and organisations to their private and selfish advantage.
Colonial Cords.
For a few centuries, most of the non European world was colonised. Reasons for such a rise in widespread colonialism can be an imbalance in the power of technology, living standards, funding and passion for trade on the part of the colonisers. Some societies were already easily down trodden for conquest in the luck of the draw.
The effects of past and present colonisation still exist in the influence of language, perception, beliefs, inequity of international relationships and culture. Some previous colonial powers still remain strong in exerting decisions made over world wide entities and matters. Their economic prowess can remain formidable even if the sun of colonisation is supposed to have long ago set below the horizon.
Technological Links and Enablers.
The quality and quantity of technology employed, whether for war or peace time purposes, is a key differentiator in history. Technology can fast track efficiency, robustness and superiority.
Technology enables growth in finances, economy and power held. When the means of technology is employed for less desirable purposes, that is what we should be more aware and cautious of.
Food and Energy Security.
Human societies have to be realistic - the bottom line is to have sufficient food to nurture human strengths, thinking abilities and physical optimums. Few nations produce more food than they can consume. The same goes for energy requirements to propel transport, electricity and data centres.
When you rely on importing what you do not have, you are dependent on risks in supply lines, trade relationships and public security. When a society or country has only a few weeks supply of materials, produce or products indispensable to its survival or viability, good leadership works on mitigating such risks to its independence.
Religious Motivations.
The drive of religion underlying political actions is most readily observed. Such power is embedded in existing religious based institutions that call on the masses to take action and decisions that glorify higher powers and thereby justify the necessary sacrifices to be made.
The Migrant Factor.
The Us Versus Them argument hypes up the corral under siege logic, in that inherent problems in a society are alleged to be caused by recent arrivals or perceived outsiders.
Instead of realistically resolving the causes of a problem, the blame game in politics can be an easy manipulation of the more vulnerable in the community. Benefits brought by migration are downplayed while racial harmony is ruthlessly broken.
Power Families, Funds and Hubs.
Old money and new money can join forces discreetly and quietly to be puppet masters in local and international politics.
Media, fund movers, secret groupings and choice of government leaders operate in the background with unannounced priorities, agendas and execution.
Those at the Top Can Often Do So, especially at the height of their powers, without justifying any regulation, ethics or requirement.
Man made precedents can be removed in the guise of emergencies, external threats and sheer exercise of control, especially if the army is behind you - and all protestations of legality are thrown out the window.
The Grip of Political Ideologies.
Legacies from the 19th and 20th centuries still vibrate in differences of governance systems. Can the original tenets of democratic ideals truly work and be effective with millions of voters, gerrymandering of electorate boundaries, interference in vote counts and the speculation of polls? Communism is painted by liberals as covered with dictatorships. Can communist principles exist with a capitalistic economic framework and mindset? Go figure, observe and make up your own mind.
Remoteness in Geographical Locations.
Does this offer a layer of protection against the effects of the more violent parts of the World? Advances in technology can make all corners of Earth more accessible. The overpowering chains of alliances can demand isolated places to decide and make a stand or take sides.
Information Access and Influence. Control of personal information, commercially useful data and so called smart device daily use analysis are so significant to any party controlling the world. Individually or collectively, the data amassed are not only utilised to determine patterns of present consumption, but become the basis of predictive science, AI learning and behavioural monitoring.
Continuing Addictions of the Masses.
Power and control by the distinct few are enhanced by giving peanuts to the masses, utilising the opium effect by ensuring addictive stupor on those whom you wish to manipulate and by ensuring constant socio-economic distractions for the majority in any society.
Most of the world's economic wealth is held by a decreasing minority of the Earth's population. Even in contemporary times, do reflect on how a typical human being's effort, time and skills are spent on mundane, repetitive and relatively not so worthwhile activities.
#yongkevthoughts
Wednesday, 4 March 2026
Iconic and Festive Cantonese Dishes
The Guangzhou style of culinary travelled with the migration of southern Chinese to South east Asia, Anglo centric nations and parts of Latin America as early as 200 years ago ( if not more). Here is my selection of celebratory Cantonese dishes for any festive occasion.
Whole crab claypot with egg noodles combines the best of fresh seafood cooked with garlic, ginger and shallots.
Roast goose is an iconic dish in the Teochew heartlands of southern Guangdong Province (south east of China).
Stir fried savoury greens must be combined with sufficient Wok Hei or heat to bring out the full taste when served - the dish uses dried shrimp, chilli cuts and bean paste to enhance.
Roast pork slices are de riguer present for meals on special occasions in Chinese and Vietnamese culture. They signify cubes of gold to bring in good omens. They also signify prosperity and good fortune.
Steamed fish garnished by fresh herbs, ginger slices, cherry tomatoes and other condiments to accompany the freshness of the seafood. Whole fish indicate plenty, abundance and energy.
Singapore and Malaysia can have their Hainan chicken rice - but the Cantonese treasure their yellow skinned poached chicken on the bone with a gratifying flavour and bite.
An entree of steamed oysters served on the shell.
This delicacy uses subtle other ingredients to manage a sensation on the palate and must be served warm.
Piping hot noodles must be mixed thoroughly before being served - and must never be cut at the meal table.
Braised seafood nestles over a bed of steamed Kai Lan in a traditional celebratory choice.
The virtues of vegetables cannot be underestimated in a collection of savoury mushrooms, carrots, brocolli and more.
The ubiqutious fried rice remains one of the banquet dishes at southern Chinese weddings, reunions and gatherings.
Warmly braised meats and vegetables warm up the appetite when served in claypots - Chinese tradition is cut up ingredients in tiny bitesize which can be easily picked up by chopsticks.
Shangdung roast chicken can be found even in Westernised Chinese restaurants outside Asia.
Steamed packs of glutinous rice await diners with aromatic slices of the Cantonese sausage ( Lap Cheong) and bites of refined Shitake mushrooms.
Sweet and sour welcome with battered meatballs, onions, capsicium and pineapple slices.
Tuesday, 3 March 2026
The Bunker Mentality
Does your residential locality offer viable air raid shelters?
Even with the contemporary array of military weapons used, a bunker or air raid shelter maintains its usefulness, relevance and viability.
The strength of concrete utilised, the location of such shelters and practical accessibility to them in the event of an emergency all count as significant.
Why do specific cities, societies or nations take the trouble or have the foresight to build them? Is it because they have learnt from the past of the damage incurred in all out confrontations, or is it due to strategic planning and proactive mindsets?
Usually places or communities which feel vulnerable can be small city states, with populations that embrace financial vibrancy and growth and with leadership that value their citizens more than most. It is thereby surprising that dynamic Dubai has no air raid shelters. Dubai lies at the crossroads of vital trade, shipping and airline routes. In contrast, Singapore integrated a bunker room early on with the layout of its social housing.
In regions that physically seem to be distant from the usual hubs of war in history, one may assume that there can be no sense in building bunkers. This logic is smashed by the presence of bunkers in Hobart and Brisbane, on the eastern coasts of Australia - although they were built related to the 20th century world wars, I understand they are not truly maintained for 21st century politics.
Bunkers are also a favourite tool to hide from an ugly outside world, the stuff of scifi movies and novels. They hold a peculiar fascination for the human pysche. There are websites that provide guidance on what to stock in such bunkers. Northern Europe has serious bunker interests in communities that deeply feel a need to protect them regarding incursions from nearby nations.
Bunkers need to consider impacts of climate, ventilation, energy and supply requirements. Above all there is a necessary layer of secrecy and privacy. Most of all is the concern on whether the bunkers can be destroyed easily, in these days of deployment of missiles and drones.
Are bunkers essentially a temporary tool of survival? Is the public drilled and trained in how to use them? Do bunkers need more than concrete to be strong? Can digital technology enhance or reduce the viability of a bunker's usefulness?
#yongkevthoughts
Tuesday, 17 February 2026
Long Ago and Far Away
My residential suburb lacks having accessiblity to buy Nyonya Kueh (Straits Chinese snacks) and Char Kueh Kak (stir fried savoury radish cake)- but makes up in other things which I should not take for granted.
I just came back home having as takeaway, freshly made soy milk made by nice middle aged China lady, a Vietnamese salmon fillet claypot pack, a Bahn Mi made beautifully by an expert baguette maker and a goat curry serve ( all from Eastwood in north west Greater Sydney).
There can be this inherent longing for things Asian when one has migrated long ago and far away.
It can all come back intensely during celebrations for the Lunar New Year. In Singapore and Malaysia, it is called the Chinese New Year, in Vietnam, Tet and in Korea, Seolall.
What are the things for this festive season that are no longer done around the world, or less of it?
The customary duty and joy of giving red packets with cash inside to those younger than you, handed over with encouraging blessings.
The visits to each other's abode on the first day of the 15 day long celebration.
The sending of greetings on cards posted through the government run mailing system.
The vocalisation of traditional and well crafted greetings when meeting up with each other.
The obvious absence of fruits with good omen and meaning, when one lives in the hemisphere opposite to that of East Asia.
The increasing disregard for several things one must avoid doing during the New Year period - for example, taking brooms out, using sharp implements, wearing clothes of unfortunate colours, gifting of items like clocks which can signify negative things and cutting your hair.
Buying and cooking with tight schedules for the reunion dinner on the eve of Lunar New Year. Many reunion dinners are now taken outside the home at commercial eateries.
Not coming back to the family home for the New Year's Eve reunion dinner, especially when there is no public holiday, when it is a school night and when one is overseas.
The careful choosing of which lucky direction to face and what indicative time to first step out of your abode on the morning of the first day of the New Year.
To not visit each other on the third day of the festive season, to obtain a much needed restful time after the hecticness of socialising during the first two days.
To not honour our best four legged friends on the second day of the Lunar New Year, for it is said that dogs were created then, earlier than human beings, who came into existence on the seventh day.
At the same time, new practices are emerging in this contemporary world of over 8 billion human beings.
Online electronic transfers of money are the preferred method of delivering good luck and blessings instead of utilising the traditional red packet.
The over commercialisation of gifts that are given to elders, family members, business clients and politicians.
People are becoming more health conscious and discerning when consuming particular traditional festive snacks.
People leaving the city or country of residence to go on overseas holidays "just to get away from it all".
The Lunar New Year coincides with the earnest start of mainstream business, school and corporate execution in Australia and New Zealand. So celebrations can get low key when the Lunar Year begins on a week day. Celebrations are therefore moved to the nearest weekend.
What has not changed throughout the years are increased consumption of hard liquor and lobster; increased traffic jams; airport congestion and rising air fares; significant wifi use, video communication and app clicks; and opportunities to catch up.
Acrobatic lion dances, dragon parades and fresh blooms continue to rise in popularity.
The use of fire crackers and fireworks in public and private places is decreasing, as drones and AI imagery get more sophisticated.
More individuals find themselves working on festive days in societies that do not close for the holidays. It may be convenient to purchase goods and commercial services during Chinese New Year, but prices asked do spike up.
Festivals are a significant occasion to reaffirm political, commercial.and personal relationships. There are addresses by national leaders to their people. Bosses throw a sumptous meal and gathering to reward their staff. Bonuses are given.
I do not take for granted that we can celebrate festivals in a relatively peaceful world - and also acknowledge the suffering of our fellow human beings in continuing unresolved conflicts. The Lunar New Year is best celebrated by seriously reflecting what truly counts in life.
#yongkevthoughts
Thursday, 12 February 2026
To Go The Distance
Friends and relatives back in Asia do remind me of their relative convenience when accessing food they want at any time. It is often a maximum of driving out for only 30 minutes one way, before they are already physically in their eatery. Piping hot, freshly made and with appetite to be fulfilled.
Staying in a large metropolitan area in Australia can mean very different circumstances. Getting to do anything in the course of daily life can mean the no choice but to commute for long distances.
Whether it is to get to the latest shopping buzz, hyped restaurant, art gallery, preferred medical provider, niche grocery, not to be missed live concert, international flight, seasonal international cricket game, beloved relative or latest sensational bakery, one has to make effort and allocate time in travel before arriving at the destination and then again, before arriving back home.
Several people I know with kids and elderly present book into accommodation close to their purposed venue - instead of having to drive several hours all in one day. Vehicle parking availability is increasingly a growing problem as well when one arrives at the destination.
Australian mainstream populations continue to love their sense of spaciousnes, even if it can get increasingly expensive and not so practical to do so. New housing continues to spread out on the fringes of metropolitan areas.
Those who live in units in the high rises in more densely packed city suburbs can on the other hand just take their elevators down to drop by the cafe or eatery that are commercial tenants in the same building. These same individuals can now also hop on to nearby street light rail ( even in Canberra) or sparkling underground Metro stations ( only in Melbourne and Sydney) to commute to all the fun out there.
The two dominant supermarkets operating across Australia have branches in many suburbs. Such is their commercial power that it is easier to locate a Woolies or Coles than to find a post box, bank branch, butcher, pub or taxi stand.
I must reiterate that I can find a refreshing and well maintained Nature's park in any Australian suburb, more easy than walking past a duopolistic supermarket. I am grateful that I can walk to several parks, small or large, near a forest or by the sea, within a 2km radius of my abode.
It is important to carefully select the suitable kind of local community for your or family needs. Is it more significant that you do not need to use your private vehicle to travel to fulfil your variety of needs and daily use? Do you enjoy driving long distances or commuting for hours just to do things in your social profile?
Do you make the long journey locally only once in a while and not on a regular basis?
Levels of mobility, purpose of trip and easier means of travel do figure a lot in your decision making on these matters.
Or do you commute only for work purposes? I know of individuals wh0 never venture beyond their residential precinct, except when going overseas for holiday or on a family reunion.
More and more of today's population transact on line and in a virtual world, physically confining themselves to a particular site - getting food delivered to the door, obtaining stimulation through artificial intelligence and earning money on clicks and clacks. They do not have to commute much, except when they occasionally relocate internationally for better jobs, influencer nomadity and because of falling in love.
#yongkevthoughts
Tuesday, 10 February 2026
Lowered Expectations
We are brought up mostly to see and think of the best in other human beings.
My expectations on this has made me experience good encounters, but not entirely. In the current turn of the contemporary society and world, I now begin to mindfully lower my expectations in how people, community, society, government, authorities and well funded powers behave - this is especially towards the disenfranchised, the public and those who do not count in the larger scheme of things.
Concurrently running along the seeming path to more meanness is the strong observations of individuals, businesses, politicians and organisations increasing self centredness.
Commerce may have led the way, in the messages of only ensuring their own well being and having less concerns about the customer who buys and brings in the cash flow. Many large corporates have people at the top who do not even appreciate or understand the view points and experience of customers in the various stages in the journey of buying from such businesses.
The falling emphasis in less human contact and rising use of device screen methods to sell or service has added to the lost art of consideration, civility and character when dealing with each other.
In the process of dealing with residents, consumers and others who are the linchpin of how an economy works, the top down approach adopted by more and more operators seem to be to avoid meeting with them, send mass messages online, reduce communication access and enhance the importance of investors and highly paid management. In the process, such powers that are and can be, dehumanise the majority in human societal structures.
This is especially evident when institutions and corporates dominate the market in an overwhelming manner, for example in New Zealand and Australia, with less competition and choice.
Taking customers ( in the broadest sense of the word) for granted looks like the forte and rationale of increasingly more modern society structures, modus operandi and institutions. Why so? Because they can do so.
So that is why it is significant that many people ( and not just me aha) are lowering our expectations. And that is critical - by lowering our expectations, we also begin to lose our attachment to such bodies. Do we really need to interact or buy from bad service and product providers?
There in lies a potential solution. By decreasing our attachment to many useless things, irrelevant humans, aggressive businesses and impertinent structures, we allow our energies, time and hard earned monies go to more worthwhile causes and activities that truly do enrich our soul and inner joy.
Life is a journey of change. When we change our expectations and attachment, we do not absorb the negative energy from parties who just want to take advantage of us - and who are not worth our energy to bother about.
And the bottom line I must say, is that it is more meaningful and rewardinv to raise expectations of our own selves - not for the sake of others, but in our own personal journey.
#yongkevthoughts
Saturday, 7 February 2026
Spring has Sprung
China has 24 distinct solar terms recognised, emphatically for agricultural guidance and echoing historical and cultural significance and sophistication.
The fourth of February in 2026 marked the arrival of Spring or Li Chun. In Japan, this same day is called Risshun. The Japanese celebrate Shunbun No Hi in March, also to signify the start of the Sakura or Cherry Blossom flowering season, first starting in Kyushu and spreading north to Hokkaido.
Li Chun day has a touch of fun when it is said eggs can be placed standing up, but only on that particular date. Have you tried doing this?
Zurich youngsters traditionally publicly burned the Boogg, an eleven foot straw effigy to mark the day of the Spring Equinox (21st March) in Switzerland. The widely used English word "bogeyman" comes from this effigy.
Indians celebrate the arrival of Spring as Holi, a colourful riot of celebration marked by street festivities and the use of dyed powders. Persians celebrate Nowruz, a significant feature of Zoroastrainism, when an intensive and purposeful home spring cleaning exercise called Khaneh Tekani is carried out before the important date.
Druids and Pagans gathered at Stonehenge in England. The Great Sphinx, ever mysterious south of Cairo in all its stone splendour through the ages, has the setting sun behind her right shoulder on the first day of Spring in the Northern Hemisphere.
Human groups and cultures instinctively welcome the transition to warmer temperatures, especially from this current winter with blizzards and record snowfall in Canada, Siberia, northern Europe, western Russia, northern China and north eastern USA.
The Festival of Scrambled Eggs takes place in Bosnia to mark the change to a warmer season. A bit later than in most nations, Canadians have a Tulip Festival to remember the gift of the Dutch flowers to Canada at the end of World War 2.
Indigenous practice is to welcome the Serpent of the Light in equatorial Mexico on the day of the Northern Hemisphere Spring Equinox.
Easter indicates rebirth and renewal. Bulgarians tap hard boiled eggs against each other in a game like atmosphere, but these have colourfully painted egg shells in the practice of Orthodoxy. Romanian and Maldovians exchange gifts of bright red strings craftfully tied up in a bow.
Smigus-Dyngus or Wet Monday involves splashing of water in an affectionate and cleansing way by Poles to herald the arrival of Spring. It reminds me of the perhaps more boisterous water splashing in April on the streets of Thailand to celebrate Songkran.
Meanwhile the largest ever annual festive migration of humans occurs in the two weeks before and after the Chinese New Year, not just in China but amongst the diaspora especiallly across South East Asia. Reminding me of salmons who swim back to where they were born in Canada, Scandinavia or New Zealand, the importance of family reunion is echoed in the massive movements of human beings on planes, trains and on the roads. The aim is to sit down and have a meal together as a family on that most sentimental of evenings - New Year's Eve.
Chinese New Year is referred to as the Lunar New Year in Western media, as the same festival is also celebrated in Thailand, Korea, Vietnam, Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia and in Central Asian republics.
When Chinese New festivities end on the 15th night of the celebrations, the Chinese farming calender indicates a change into another solar term - Yu Shiu or the period of Rain.
#yongkevthoughts
Monday, 2 February 2026
Sundays Are Not the Same Anymore
Sunday mornings often offered a regime that sparkled.
The schedule started with reading on paper, tangible sheer natural product that stimulated our fingers, coupled with the sheer pleasure of leafing through various content that contained more than just adverts or petty news in a thick weekend edition of a newspaper.
The newspapers came to our front door early, often at dawn. If we went to the newsagent, its shelves were stacked with a sufficient stack of magazines. Today, Australian newsagents can be a sad shade of lotto gambling, limited stationery and a range of knick knacks.
Going outdoors early in the day - or for that matter, anytime - was a sheer pleasure, whether as a pedestrain along footpaths or soaking in the freshness of a park. Although public spaces are to share, these days human walkers along footpaths do experience higher risks of confronting with dangers seen and unforseen.
Battery powered e bikes are ridden fast whizzing past close to pedestrains by riders who do not have to register their vehicles or be licensed to operate.
Human walkers these days notice more pet poo left deposited on public realms. Across Australia, there are rising casualties and fatalties reported of pedestrains unfortunate enough to have been hit by moving oversized vehicles with hyped up frontages.
Even if I am just minding my own business, the other day I was vehemently told off by an obvious mental racist or mental case to walk on the left side along a public pavement. There were just two of us on a wide pavement in north west of Greater Sydney.
Many public places are still relatively well kept in Australian suburbs. Occasionally, I still come across the illegal dump on an unassuming creek, a hidden bushy corner or in the wrong type of garbage bin. Beaches along the Illawarra are provided with complimentary pet poo plastic bags. Massive playing fields and public grassed areas are kept mowed and looking attractive by various Councils.
The state of toilets for use by the public across Greater Sydney continue to cause concern. Bosses of eateries can drop the importance of ensuring washroom cleanliness when the going gets tough with the lack of workers, problems of ingredient supply, rising rents and financial pressure. The maintenance of toilets at T and M stations across the Sydney Rail network seems to have improved.
Sunday mornings can be oppprtunities for pleasurely drives. These days operating your private vehicle on highways or suburban roads can be exasperatimg experiences instead of witnessing how oversized and self centred egos can transform driving into acts of putting others down in aggressive behaviour.
If a Sunday happens to be a part of a long weekend, in Australia, be prepared to pay more when eating out - these can be to compensate eatery staff more on a weekend or public holiday, on top of whatever surcharges when taping a card.
Busy dates at popular restaurants can also mean limited seating time when dining.
Weekends were times to encourage greater socialisation in communities and generally across society. Now there can be greater congestion on the roads, less dependability and regularity of public transport schedules and a greater reluctance to go out on Sundays.
So that is why I have sentiments for those beautiful Sundays many years ago.
#yongkevthoughts
Tuesday, 27 January 2026
Throwing Your Hat In
If we are not at the table, we will be in rhe menu.
Taking part, doing our part and having our say is more significant in an age of lowering ethics, more aggressive making use of others and rising manipulation by those we think we can trust.
At times it can be mental, physical and pyschological fatigue we experience, if we dare walk up the hill of opposition to us when we purposefully have to make things right.
At the same time, we can discover our hidden resolve, unexpected positive fulfilment and a twinkle in our eye, when we do the right thing.
We meet roadblocks, devious games, toxicity and sheer fraud when we persist. On certain days we have disappointment on our shoulders or our hearts dampened, but it is a true adage that tomorrow is another day.
We may be abandoned by some or encouraged by others. It can be a lonely journey - but it can be experiencing episodes of fellowship on the same weary road. The bottom line is that it is always a personal sojourn.
The fascinating thing is that we can understand and see others better along the way.
We do not expect the level of passion in others to be the same as in us. We know that it is all just a game with varying levels of intensity. We fall at times, but we get wiser. We are more mindful when others stir, gaslight or provoke us. We also have moments or stages that uplift us. We discover that we have set up personal boundaries and values for others to acknowledge.
What is the vulnerability or weakness of the individual or group that opposes, harasses and bullies us? Perhaps we have found their Achilles Heels in their facade and behaviour. There are more than sea shells in the sand when the tide goes down.
Such is the state and nature of the process, whether in politics, small organisations, social movements, making an invention or in promoting an idea or good cause.
If you do not throw your hat in the ring, you can only watch from the side.
Hear no evil, say no evil and see no evil? It is burying our heads in the sand, but the matter asking for our attention and help will not just go away.
#yongkevthoughts
Saturday, 24 January 2026
The Irony and Paradox
The Irony and the Paradox.
To constantly use our eyes each day from screen to another screen.
To not recognise that those in power and influence may not reveal the full story to us.
To not allow for consumers to change preferences and think that if they buy a product or service once, they will keep using it in the future.
To become so dependent in old age like an infant.
To realise that pets are more reliable and comfortable company compared to some human beings lurking to inflict toxicity.
To not use our limbs and mind in regular activity and continue to degrade them in illusionary comfort.
To wake up from the propaganda disguised as entertainment.
To feed ourselves in daily doses of sugar, fat, microplastics and artificiality of over processed ingredients in our daily habits.
To not use our own intelligence and protect our trust when roped in by manipulators, dishonesty and selfishness.
To treat only symptoms and not the root causes.
To not use it can mean losing it.
That the human pysche and mindset can wallow in circuitous enmeshment of problems that can never be resolved.
To not build up the resilience of our future generations and continue to pamper them.
That continuing to take more than give upsets the flow and rhythm in so many things - politics, religion, Nature, relationships and more.
To be in denial that addiction can be in so many disguises and forms.
To not recognise the so called proverbial train wreck that is likely to happen.
To not see that misuse and abuse of policies and rules do happen, especially with no effective monitoring.
To allow our personal time use be dictated by others.
To service our private vehicle more than our health.
To not acknowledge and realise the opportunity waiting in front of us.
To not have the courage to change instead of embedding ourselves on the obvious wrong track.
To not realise that some business sectors are essentially finance accumulation commercial mechanisms, rather than purporting to take care of their human customers.
To not see that many things remain the same in human and world affairs.
To be not able to personally step back and see the disillusion and distraction of contemporary society.
#yongkevthoughts
Wednesday, 14 January 2026
Will It Still Matter?
Will it matter, after all is said and done?
The hydrangea shrub has its leaves and stems roasted after three days of extraordinary temperatures in summer.
I cut the damaged parts off and await new growth.
There are moments when one does not feel like having a full meal. This is an opportunity to fast and do other things away from the kitchen.
There are also occasions when our appetite is spiking up so well, that we eat more than usual. We have found the optimal time to treat our culinary desires, so why not?
We may not have all the ingredients on hand when cooking, so we improvise with substitutes and experiment with other techniques. We may create a new recipe, or we make do with whatever on hand to use up what is available right now.
What does it matter, when we open our mindset and just move on?
When our known and usual routes we take are blocked or hindered, we can go on the path less trodden.
When we have unexpected spare time, we can dabble in something our inner longings have pondered upon.
When wifi supply breaks down, we can read a book instead of device screens.
We can walk when the car is not available.
We can consciously choose to have fresh produce instead of manufactured and processed packaged food.
We can opt for not following the masses and not worry about missing out on what a herd mentality demands.
What matters at a single point of time can differ in various individuals, but when we take a longer view over time, a lot of things truly do not matter.
At the end of the day, many things are forgotten, the heat of opinions dissipitated, the relevance of matters no longer there. This is especially for transactional matters in micro politics, social interactions and irritating inconveniences.
Like delays at airports, machine breakdowns and on the road. When touchy episodes involve religions, there is a different kettle of fish. Things that then matter can fester in individuals because of long held beliefs, so called education and hardened attitudes.
While one realises that some matters do not matter due to the grace of time and distance, such matters dissolve into less and zilch importance.
When and where it still matters, the human pysche and wiring makes us do something about it - challenge, flee or accept.
#yongkevthoughts
Assuredly Reliable
is the embrace of family. Perhaps it is stirring competition. Sometimes it feels like the fear of missing out. Or is it the special someone who always stirs our hearts and constantly nurtures our inner joy.
Can it be having a passion and interest? Having a good social network makes us enjoy each day. Is it having a purposeful preoccupation each new day? Or coming across an unexpected, delightful encounter? Or returning to embrace Nature, soaking and swimming in the ocean and feeling the fresh vibes of the outdoors?
Things, experiences and opinions can be fleeting. The human condition can be to grasp the ever changing, especially of matters inherently external to our inner selves. Human societies create wealth no longer from just tangible stuff, but make financial gains and create floating values out of churning, differences and speculaton.
We no longer in contemporary society can interact in life's routine with the same human being at the shop, clinic, service provider and so forth. Constancy, familiarity and comfort can take a plunge as to whom we can rely.
What we can really depend upon are all found within ourselves.
Our own integrity, values, character and personality.
Our realisation of our core strengths and to think for ourselves despite accelerating changes outside us.
Our ability built up to recognise diversions and distractions in our personal journey.
Our effort to step back and see what really is meaningful in the long term.
#yongkevthoughts
Monday, 12 January 2026
At the Cinemaplex
I have not been to cinemaplexes for a long time.
From being devoted to super embracing screens, some of us have instead moved on to watch videos on smaller screens, trying to multi task while doing something else - taking long commutes, while having a meal or when waiting for something.
There can be no focus on just savouring a movie, with nothing else to distract us, except maybe for the crackle of popcorn and the hum of airconditioning in a large darkened hall.
There were the years when audiences could sit through a few hours of a movie that knew how to combine music, artistry, emotion, expression, sensibilities and audio - all to stir our thoughts, enjoyment, speculation, amazement and questions in the way characters, storyline and inspiration were portrayed.
Being able to stop a playing movie somewhere in between can be convenient, but does not provide the completeness watching it all in one sitting. Strangers, spouses, partners and friends watching together at one same venue gave a shared collective experience.
Very few now bother with looking at the rather useful trove of information in rolling credits. Data about a particular movie and cast can be checked on the internet.
Spectacular and well made movies were scheduled during festive seasons, school holidays and community events - but they still are.
Thursday, 8 January 2026
Personal Boundaries
The Obvious Cannot be Hidden by the Silence, the Silence Cannot be Hidden by the Obvious.
Every detail, every sweep and every nook are so clearly revealed when the tide goes down.
When you always take, you get some - give and you receive much more. That is the Law of the Universe.
When greed permeates a human being, every new comfort is never enough - and that person is trapped in a spiral of attachment.
It is not worth an iota to waste energy on a person who cannot rise beyond the fog embedded hopelessly inside.
There are individuals who can see when injustice is inflicted on them - but not when they carry out the act of injustice on to others ( or they pretend about it).
Those who can sleep soundly after stepping on you deserve to be ignored.
Step back from the noise, hype and distraction.
The world will carry on no matter what - but honestly, are you going to remain silent in the face of obvious incivility?
What you do not practice can be lost forever.
Time is not like money. There is no return on more time stowed away, it simply passes and that time is literally lost. So value your own time and the people who give up on their time for you.
One can be polite, but not at the expense of our integrity.
#yongkevthoughts
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