Throwing Your Hat In

If we are not at the table, we will be in rhe menu. Taking part, doing our part and having our say is more significant in an age of lowering ethics, more aggressive making use of others and rising manipulation by those we think we can trust. At times it can be mental, physical and pyschological fatigue we experience, if we dare walk up the hill of opposition to us when we purposefully have to make things right. At the same time, we can discover our hidden resolve, unexpected positive fulfilment and a twinkle in our eye, when we do the right thing. We meet roadblocks, devious games, toxicity and sheer fraud when we persist. On certain days we have disappointment on our shoulders or our hearts dampened, but it is a true adage that tomorrow is another day. We may be abandoned by some or encouraged by others. It can be a lonely journey - but it can be experiencing episodes of fellowship on the same weary road. The bottom line is that it is always a personal sojourn. The fascinating thing is that we can understand and see others better along the way. We do not expect the level of passion in others to be the same as in us. We know that it is all just a game with varying levels of intensity. We fall at times, but we get wiser. We are more mindful when others stir, gaslight or provoke us. We also have moments or stages that uplift us. We discover that we have set up personal boundaries and values for others to acknowledge. What is the vulnerability or weakness of the individual or group that opposes, harasses and bullies us? Perhaps we have found their Achilles Heels in their facade and behaviour. There are more than sea shells in the sand when the tide goes down. Such is the state and nature of the process, whether in politics, small organisations, social movements, making an invention or in promoting an idea or good cause. If you do not throw your hat in the ring, you can only watch from the side. Hear no evil, say no evil and see no evil? It is burying our heads in the sand, but the matter asking for our attention and help will not just go away. #yongkevthoughts

The Irony and Paradox

The Irony and the Paradox. To constantly use our eyes each day from screen to another screen. To not recognise that those in power and influence may not reveal the full story to us. To not allow for consumers to change preferences and think that if they buy a product or service once, they will keep using it in the future. To become so dependent in old age like an infant. To realise that pets are more reliable and comfortable company compared to some human beings lurking to inflict toxicity. To not use our limbs and mind in regular activity and continue to degrade them in illusionary comfort. To wake up from the propaganda disguised as entertainment. To feed ourselves in daily doses of sugar, fat, microplastics and artificiality of over processed ingredients in our daily habits. To not use our own intelligence and protect our trust when roped in by manipulators, dishonesty and selfishness. To treat only symptoms and not the root causes. To not use it can mean losing it. That the human pysche and mindset can wallow in circuitous enmeshment of problems that can never be resolved. To not build up the resilience of our future generations and continue to pamper them. That continuing to take more than give upsets the flow and rhythm in so many things - politics, religion, Nature, relationships and more. To be in denial that addiction can be in so many disguises and forms. To not recognise the so called proverbial train wreck that is likely to happen. To not see that misuse and abuse of policies and rules do happen, especially with no effective monitoring. To allow our personal time use be dictated by others. To service our private vehicle more than our health. To not acknowledge and realise the opportunity waiting in front of us. To not have the courage to change instead of embedding ourselves on the obvious wrong track. To not realise that some business sectors are essentially finance accumulation commercial mechanisms, rather than purporting to take care of their human customers. To not see that many things remain the same in human and world affairs. To be not able to personally step back and see the disillusion and distraction of contemporary society. #yongkevthoughts

Will It Still Matter?

Will it matter, after all is said and done? The hydrangea shrub has its leaves and stems roasted after three days of extraordinary temperatures in summer. I cut the damaged parts off and await new growth. There are moments when one does not feel like having a full meal. This is an opportunity to fast and do other things away from the kitchen. There are also occasions when our appetite is spiking up so well, that we eat more than usual. We have found the optimal time to treat our culinary desires, so why not? We may not have all the ingredients on hand when cooking, so we improvise with substitutes and experiment with other techniques. We may create a new recipe, or we make do with whatever on hand to use up what is available right now. What does it matter, when we open our mindset and just move on? When our known and usual routes we take are blocked or hindered, we can go on the path less trodden. When we have unexpected spare time, we can dabble in something our inner longings have pondered upon. When wifi supply breaks down, we can read a book instead of device screens. We can walk when the car is not available. We can consciously choose to have fresh produce instead of manufactured and processed packaged food. We can opt for not following the masses and not worry about missing out on what a herd mentality demands. What matters at a single point of time can differ in various individuals, but when we take a longer view over time, a lot of things truly do not matter. At the end of the day, many things are forgotten, the heat of opinions dissipitated, the relevance of matters no longer there. This is especially for transactional matters in micro politics, social interactions and irritating inconveniences. Like delays at airports, machine breakdowns and on the road. When touchy episodes involve religions, there is a different kettle of fish. Things that then matter can fester in individuals because of long held beliefs, so called education and hardened attitudes. While one realises that some matters do not matter due to the grace of time and distance, such matters dissolve into less and zilch importance. When and where it still matters, the human pysche and wiring makes us do something about it - challenge, flee or accept. #yongkevthoughts