Friday, 5 December 2025

Apparently Weird

 The Seemingly Weird Things I Observe


Individuals with agitated facial expressions talking loud to themselves in public - as they cleverly hide their ear pods, they are really chatting loud on their mobile phones.

High tech wifi service that breaks down more often than landline telephones from 40 years ago.

So called annual flora breeds that go umderground each cold season and rise again in the warm season.

Prices of shares and other investments which cause a media uproar with a violent rise or fall but really keep on growing in value over the long term.

People who remarkably recall what I uttered many years ago, but in a good way.

To be in the right place at the right moment - and catch up with someone truly missed.

To hear or witness governments or authorities express regret over unresolved matters when any one could already see the proverbial train wreck coming.

To see the delusion of addiction of several things in society being encouraged in media - and to continue to see the spiral such addicts find themselves in without care by society.

To observe the over the top obsession with weather forecasts in some cultures.

To not realise the best things in life are already right infront of us every day.

To not be mindful that when an aircraft crashes, it does not matter which class of seating one is in.

Individuals who emphatically must use a particular seat on public transport.

#yongkevthoughts

Monday, 1 December 2025

The Great Leveller

 Death is the great leveller, the most certain thing for every human being.


The journey of life is littered with distractions.  Ego, addictions, time wasters, expectations of others, society's control and falsities of trickery.   When a human life expires, each of these disappear as if by magic  - but it is not magic, but attachments that have somehow expired with the last breath of life.

To balance up things, it is only fair to remind myself of other matters that go with the end of life.

Memorable character, personal resilience, charming personality, generosity, a loving nature, patience, a broad based mindset and an understanding inner self - these are features we appreciate, admire and adore in any one impressive person we are fortunate to meet up with or come to know.
The passing of such a person leaves a hollow in our hearts when we miss them.

The contemporary world that we live in the 21st century continues to be amplified with negative vibes.  

Self centredness of  politicians are increasing.   The penchant for emphatic argument and articulation of personal views and rights, without considering collective community feelings and togetherness, has significantly risen, eapecially in societies that have enjoyed increased materialistic wealth.

Individuals who come into access and control of huge corporate, financial and material reaources can dive into the most ugly of perceived Little Napoleon powerful behaviours of self entitlement and privilege.

The heightened demand for instant gratification and wanting more and more, than any human being truly requires,  has impacted on a deadly growing spiral of greed, corruption and a conviction of being able to not get penalised.

Road rage is a illustrative example of bad tempered humans being able to bully others in public, with such people really believing that the machines they operate are an extension of their demented and deprived character.

The issue with software and AI operated processes in society, business and community matters is obvious - human beings reduce speaking to each  other, get more influenced by hidden powers behind a screen and interact much less losing human social skills.  

Each of us can spend more time tapping and viewing on screens than talking and facing human beings.

We can successfully undertake work, obtain our food, perform investment or expenditure transactions, chill out or exercise,  more in the presence of machines than with human beings.

Regular transactional episodes increasingly involve us using machines more than interfacing with other human beings.  Checking in to a flight, checking out our groceries, scanning a QR code to order our meal, doing an on line tutorial, making an appointment with our provider and so on - we are encouraged to not see or talk to any human being.

So the chances of each of us to deal with a problematic human being also gets less.

The annoying reality is now when a problem arises, the software we deal with pushes back the responsibiliity to us.

This brings my discussion here to my first point -  whatever bad or good points each of us humans have, death removes all and suddenly provides a clean slate.

Death in software mechanisms and hardware devices also brings things to a stop.  Has anyone not lost photos or documentation files in computers or smart phones?

#yongkevthoughts

Monday, 17 November 2025

To Declutter

 There are things I should have started long ago to clear up.


I am good at putting in one place unfinished tasks.    Written lists of questions that could not be fully answered, the last time I looked at them.
Parts of gadgets I could not figure out.
Wholesome guides that were just so not user friendly to read and comb through.

Like in a workshop with a dozen half looked or quarter baked things, they remain on the flat table looking forlorn, crying help.

Did I miss them?   Was it not urgent?   Yet I carry on each day mostly neglecting these stuff.   Perhaps they are not important at all, like clothes left hardly worn and hanging in the wardrobe.  Instead of giving them the attention they deserve, I get diverted.   It took me some time to realise I prefer to watch diversionary chatter of politics, distracting influencer video clips and check out the latest cafe opened.

And then I am in denial about the weeds sprouting up in the garden.  "Weeds" can be defined in so many layers of understanding, even sprouting within the house.

It is more relaxing to shop online, cook for therapy or go to the beach.  These episodes have their usefulness, I am sure, but may be too much time is devoted to them.

When I am supposed to clear long left outstanding tasks, I just reassign them to different schedules, or move them to another table for further transit, or refuse to throw physical things out.  Ha, that is the origin of the expression  "playing musical chairs".

If unused clothes or pending tasks are not attended to for years, it is obvious they are not important to the person.

And to add to my serial mindset on this matter, I add in new devices, food items and chores to my already accumulating list.

Should I blame consumerism, expectations of society and peer pressure for this dilemna?

Contemporary pyschology and way of life does not encourage us to prevent looking outside for blame and cause - the media can be full of whingers, dependents and an external fast solution or quick cure.

I reckon I have to look inside myself - my mindset, my habits and my attitude - to solve the matter.   This matter need not be just a problem, but an opportunity and an  awakening.

From small things, big rewards grow.   A regular little time spent in clearing my pile of unfinished tasks or device parts.   A conscious determination to dispose of things I no longer need or use.  One can shape and develop the mind as what truly is to remain  - and what clutter to not have.

#yongkevthoughts

Friday, 14 November 2025

News Over Load

 It took a while for me to realise the futility of the 24 hours round the clock availability of news.  Whether news is read, formatted on a website or chanelled otherwise,  I am mindful what that "news" is - truth, misinformation, propaganda, cherry picked agendas, opinion, advertising or lies?


You may very well know that anything said regularly to an audience -  even if unverified - can become what the reading or listening audience takes as kosher.   Mass hysteria, lemming group think or orchestrated tricks add to the useful techniques used.

News used to take ages to arrive at the ear.   Challenges in travelling distance, communication methods and practically of dissemination all stood in the way.  By the time in the past it reached its audience, the context and perspective of the information so received with delay had a higher opportunity of enhanced understanding and reflection.

The instantaneous nature of receipt of news these days can elicit knee jerk reactions, speculative hype and making conclusions without enough time of context and reflection.

Is it necessary to know what happens every minute?   Is it vital to be informed constantly what powerful and controlling individuals say and do?   Will the world continue despite we not caring about what happens outside our own bubble and routine?

The efficient ability to transmit images around the world can add to the attractiveness of news channeling, but it can also be manipulated to evoke and elicit emotions and reaction.

Our human sensitivities can be overwhelmed with over information constantly over time.   Such a reality can aggravate physiology and pyschological mechansims in human bodies to be highly strung - whether with addictive longing, negative or positive vibes.

Commercialisation, politicisation and exploitation of news feeds are examples of the pressure on living in contemporary times.

#yongkevthoughts

Tuesday, 11 November 2025

Tourism Today

 What makes specific countries successful as visit destinations, in an age of easier mobility, more financially able people looking for more kicks and when relative peace still rules over noisy geopolitics?


Physical tourism is enhanced by no entry visa fees, uniqueness of the destination, long standing welcoming reputation, good infrastructure, strategic locations, low cost of currency, appetising food and a variety of attractions.

Medical tourism venues are growing, due to the divergence in quality of care, level of fees charged and patients not being able to afford paying high charges in their country of origin.

Investment tourism has grown due to the greater ability to move huge sums of spare funds across borders by institutions, brokers, individuals and financial structures.   These can be not necessarily legal, as long as the players at each stage of the process are willing to do so.  Funds transferred usually move to accounts paying higher returns, are flexible or derive payback from properties.   Individuals investing in such transactions can holiday in their properties overseas.  They can make physical visits to islands of tax havens.  Funds for investments no longer require to be in traditional forms.

Sentimental tourism arise upon cultural vibes arising from emigrants still having strong attachments to places where they were born in, or grew up in.  These individuals no longer reside in the abode of their ethnicity - but are also financially able to spend on repeated visits to their country of origin, especially when they get older.

Examples of such diaspora are from the Anglo-Saxon culture, which has a wide choice of holidaying in Canada, New Zealand, USA, United Kingdom and Australia.   Ever since China opened up in the 1990s and progressed especially in techology, economics, trade and finance,
the descendants of her past emigrants have been going back in droves to holiday in their perceived Motherland.

Family reunion tourism has spiked as a result of many adult young moving overseas to study and then settling in the foreign nation of their graduation.  The migration of working age adults to other countries has caused empty nest syndromes in the abode of their parents.   The airline, visa brokerage and tour agent sectors have vastly benefitted from these developments.

Economic tourism is my term involving people who enter foreign nations on a tourist visa, but continue to over stay by working illegally, even if under paid and not going back to their country of origin.  Specific sectors thrive to use such individuals, especially in roles that others refuse fo undertake.    Strictly speaking, such individuals are not tourists anymore but have used tourism to enter the foreign country and then make use of opportunities.

Another form of economic tourism occurs when individuals illegally set up a variety of low level businesses in a foreign nation  to service fellow country men and women touring from overseas.

Prostitution tourism has been the bane of lesser developed economies when visitors are richer and tour another country for a variety of sex related transactions, including depraved acts that somehow miss the monitoring radar of authorities.

Military tourism has historically been a tradition since Roman Empire days.   I recall Thailand being utilised for R and R during the heydays of the Vietnam War in the second half of the 20th century.   Troops require relief and it does not take long to connect the points between military and prostitution tourism.

Influencer tourism arose on the heels of widening social media.    The agendas of such individuals posting online vary, ranging from self glorification, promoting commercial products or services, personally fighting for ecological causes, sharing photography work or writing as authors of old used to do.

Retirement tourism  focuses on the elderly moving to another place permanently or for part of the year.    The impetus for doing so can be financial, economic, preference for another climate, varying costs of living, tax induced or having a partner or spouse who grew up in a different nation.    Reasons are as diverse as the number of nationalities involved.  Whether these foreign originated retirees mix with locals or just hang around their group of expats is another question.

Geopolitical tourism refers to some tourists continuing to tour selected countries primarily because of their strong convictions and belief in their preferred political systems.

Ecological tourism is growing due to the commitments of such tourists to taking more care of Nature and Earth.

Sports tourism has been popular with Europeans and Americans.   The holding of more spectacular and successful events especially by FIFA, tennis Grand Slam tournaments and the Olympics come to mind, but more viable are the visits to foreign countries by tourists for social skiing, water sports and regularly held marathons.   Access on television and other screens for sports like cricket, rugby, cycling and beach volleyball are not enough - enthisiasts need to be there, even if just as observers.

Religion linked tourism goes back for so long, whether fulfilling the Haj,  completing the pilgrim's track to Jerusalem, or visiting Buddhist holy sites in northern India.

While tourists mostly inject spending into places in dire need of regular cash inflows, there can be a dark side when visitor numbers overwhelm the local demographics.    There truly can be too much of a good thing.

Over populated numbers of tourists can result in lack of reasonable housing costs for residents.   The strain of too many plane and ship arrivals has often unspoken challenges in environmental pollution, hyped up food prices and discrimination in treatment of tourists and locals.

It is never reliable to dominate your city or island's economy perilously dependant on tourism and its trappings.   Pandemics like Covid 19 and outbreaks of war wipe out the ability of tourists to arrive.  Rates of street crime and increased perceptions of personal danger can cause a dent into the presumed rising rates of arrivals.   The attitude towards earth quake risk areas - even if otherwise busy vacation sites - can impact on tourist attractions.  

Where cold climate seasons provide a reprieve for the locals from the hordes of tourists, it is a welcome break -  for example, think of contemporary Xin Jiang,  Scandinavia, Nepal, Canada, the Antarctic and the Tierra del Fuego.   For other more benign climate territories, the disadvantages can be endless -  I reflect on Spain, Thailand, southern China, Malaysia and Singapore.

The ugly face of unwanted tourism vibes to me is when I witness thousands of cruise ship passengers disembark from a giant liner at port.   These passengers seem to be comparable to ants from floating versions of hives.   Hordes have booked on ro a land based tour for the next eight hours after the cruise ship docks.  And there are several cruise ships creating the buzz, the hype and the money.

Repeating visits to the same place can arouse the curiosity of some.  Many families can check into the same hotel year after year to soak in a week or two of almost doing nothing, with meals arranged, children taken care of by hotel activities and having a new routine enjoying the sun.  Some cities have transformed much within a short space of time, like in China.   Others have not progressed much or even deteriorated.

The boom in travel has also ridden on the heels of foodie experiences.   Hubs in cities like Barcelona, Melbourne, Tokyo, Bangkok, Hong Kong, Lisbon, Vienna, Milano and Palermo have created a buzz to visitors than just sight seeing.

Schoolie and sports related fan group heavy tourism, effused by energetic youth, can at times go out of control, creating shudders in the spines of police and local residents.   They come at pre fixed times of the year.

Letting the hair down behaviour can also be witnessed during Halloween nights, eve of Christmas beaches, full moon nights on remote isles and narrow city lane celebrations.   Such touristy actions can work against the basic principle for foreign visitors - foremost of all, to respect the place one is in.

#yongkevthoughts

Apparently Weird

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